C452 If You Have Something to Say Say It!
"Are you hurt by love?"
Han Qiang couldn't help but think of the days after the divorce. There were many women who accompanied him. There were almost no women like Yingying who accompanied him to the bitter end. In the end, he did not even know which woman he died in bed with. He was really hurt by his feelings.
Bixiao saw his disappointed look and curled her lips in disdain. "You seem to be a very straightforward person, but you are too indecisive in terms of feelings. If you are able to pick it up and put it down, if you are not able to cut it down quickly... You are destined to be trapped in love for the rest of your life.
Moreover, you clearly love the people around you very much, but you don't know how to say it to them. You have to know that they are not the worms in your stomach, even if they are your closest wife. If you don't tell them your true thoughts, they won't be able to grasp your true thoughts. They'll get divorced sooner or later."
Her words exploded in Han Qiang's heart like a nuclear bomb. Many things that he didn't understand before were finally understood.
In the blissful marriage with Yingying previously, there were actually undetectable cracks. If Yingying had not been reborn in 2015, her body would have divorced him if she had not been an unfamiliar soul host. Perhaps he would have gone to the extent of divorce with her sooner or later.
In the beginning, Han Qiang couldn't understand why he had given up so much for this family. After sacrificing so much, his lover still did not understand him. No one appreciated the effort he had put in, and all his hard work had been ignored. It made his heart hurt again and again.
It was only at this moment that Han Qiang was enlightened by Bixiao's words.
As a husband, as a man, and as a father, it was natural for him to give up for his lover, family, and child. However, he should tell Yingying about his feelings and the things he had encountered in time.
There were many kinds of intimate relationships in the world. Parents, brothers, sisters, children and husband and so on.
As time passed, the parents grew old, the brothers and sisters had their own families, and the children also had their own careers and marriage. They would all leave. The husband and wife had no blood relations with each other, but they were the people who accompanied each other for the longest time.
What was there in the heart that couldn't be said to such a partner?
Who said that the man had to grit his teeth and endure all the pain alone?
Maybe the man thought that he was strong enough to withstand everything, but he forgot one thing. If he didn't tell them what had happened, who would understand him?
His wife did not know what he had done. She would even misunderstand that he had not done anything for the family. He had done so much for the family, but was misunderstood and didn't do anything. It caused him to feel wronged and uncomfortable, which gradually turned into anger. In the end, it turned into a raging flame, burning the originally happy and loving marriage to ashes.
This kind of thing could also be used on his wife. It was already very hard for her to watch the child cook and wash his clothes. They even gave up their own hobbies for him, but why didn't he go home all day long? When he went home, he looked miserable...
Because when things happened, there was no honest, sincere, and familial communication between husband and wife, which led to the appearance of misunderstandings, which led to more and more divorce.
What was there that couldn't be said about people who loved each other?
If both husband and wife understood this principle, the divorce rate in the country after a few decades would not reach an astonishing 44. 83%?
Bixiao looked at him blankly staring at the ground and did not say anything for a long time. She walked over and patted him on the shoulder, "Silly junior, you must have been rendered speechless by my words. Hurry up and drink with your sister. Then go and build a group with the new guys!"
Han Qiang took a deep breath and said gratefully, "Thank you, Senior Sister, for helping me resolve the confusion in my heart for so many years. This bottle of wine is for you!"
Bixiao saw him gobbling up the fifty-two-degree Balance Water Old White, and her beautiful eyes were filled with praise. She took the bottle and gulped it down.
Han Qiang casually picked up a bottle of wine and unscrewed it. He handed it to Bixiao and said, "Senior Sister, the school's club martial arts competition is held at the end of the year?"
Bixiao tilted her head and looked at him. She laughed and said, "Silly junior was moved by what I said and couldn't wait to go back and meet the beauties?"
Han Qiang smiled in embarrassment. "Tomorrow is September 1st. There are still at least four months until the end of the year. Brother, I really can't wait anymore. If it is possible... I want to fly back with my wings on my back right now and confess to my sisters' hearts in a domineering manner. Whether it's successful or not, don't let each other have any regrets. I don't want to drag down the youth of so many beautiful sisters because of my persistence."
Bixiao smiled and said, "The school's martial arts competition has always been held at the end of the year. If you want to start it ahead of time, you have to give the school a large sum of sponsorship money and let the school take the lead in this matter."
Han Qiang laughed when he heard that. A large sum of sponsorship money was a problem for others, but for the richest man in the world, it was as easy as flipping his hand.
The two of them each took a bottle of wine and went out to the Drunken Immortal Residence in the backyard of the school.
On the way, Bixiao asked curiously, "When we parted in Magic City, you were just a modern expert of martial arts. How did your strength increase so quickly?"
Han Qiang drank a mouthful of wine and said with a bitter smile, "At that time, in order to pick fresh thousand-year-old ginseng for sister, you let Sister Jingjing enter the deep mountains and forests. In there, I met jackals, tigers, bears and bears. Mercenaries, assassins and expert of traditional martial arts were as numerous as carps in a river. Every day, I spent my days in super exciting combat. If I was not careful, I would not have a corpse left.
Under such a great pressure and stimulation, my combat level became higher and higher. The extra movements and the waste of time in my moves were removed, completely completing the transition between traditional martial arts and modern martial arts. Under such extreme stimulation, my potential has been developed along the way. "1
Bixiao rubbed her smooth chin and probed, "Don't tell me you are already a grand master of traditional martial arts?"
Han Qiang smiled and shook his head, "I am also not sure what kind of condition I am in right now. Say that I am a Grandmaster. I feel that I am still a little bit away, but I have indeed touched the threshold. Perhaps I need a greater stimulation to successfully become a true Grandmaster. "
Bixiao suddenly realized and said," After all this time, you want the school to hold a club martial arts competition as soon as possible. Other than going back to pick up girls quickly, you also want to make use of this opportunity to become a true Grandmaster? "
"Another goal is to let Senior Sister's Martial Arts Club become the number one martial arts club in Cang Lang Normal Academy. They want to recruit a large number of members for the club and better spread the traditional martial arts in the country." Han Qiang smiled and added.
Bixiao heard it and felt warm in her heart. She said apologetically, "At first, I thought that you were a rich second generation who pretended to be poor to pick up girls, that's why I called you a scumbag man. I didn't expect you to be the world-famous Stock God. I'm really sorry."
"Senior Sister, please don't speak like that. I still like your rude attitude. If you speak so gently, I'm afraid that when I get used to having three wives and four concubines in the future, I will also kidnap you." Han Qiang chuckled.
"Scumbag man! Watch me beat you up!"
Bixiao's pretty face turned pink as she gave him a punch in annoyance.
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