1013: C1013 Pushing and Pulling Techniques

C1013 Pushing and Pulling Techniques

Small Melon grabbed the weasel's phone and edited a message: Haha, of course. With your craftsmanship, if the soup you make is given to someone to drink, wouldn't it cause a death?

Shangguan Shufen directly responded with an ellipsis. She was obviously unhappy.

The weasel was anxious. "How can you do that? You made her angry."

"What's the hurry? Keep looking down."

With a strategist's expression, Small Melon edited another message and sent it over. However, I would like to have a taste of the soup you made. Even if he was a ghost, he would still be dissolute. When that time came, he would have to walk over the Bridge of Helplessness with his head held high.

Shangguan Shufen quickly replied, Tsk, since when did you become so poor? You're still walking with your head held high. Aren't you afraid that you'll slip into the River of Forgetfulness and never reincarnate? Don't blame me when the time comes.

This message was clearly once again enthusiastic. Furthermore, he could feel the other party's mood from the screen.

The weasel had a puzzled look on its face. It completely did not understand what was going on.

Small Melon explained with a faint smile, "This kind of chatting technique is called 'push' in psychology. It's very easy to understand, it's literally the meaning, push and pull."

"First suppress the other party, then praise the other party. It's the same as slapping the other party and then giving the other party a date. It's the same as giving the other party a slap."

"This also involves the essence of love. Many men actually have pretty good personal conditions, but girls just don't like him, so the reason they give is that they don't feel anything."

"And the feeling that girls speak of is actually a kind of emotional fluctuation."

"Emotions are also divided into happiness, joy, sadness, depression and fear."

"When a person's emotions fluctuate, it will promote the secretion of a chemical called dopamine"

"This chemical can give one a pleasant feeling, so whether it's chatting with girls or with girls, it's essentially a process that affects their emotions."

"If you keep trying to please a girl to make her happy, your emotions will become a straight line, and you won't be able to promote the secretion of dopamine."

"And if you keep suppressing girls and make them angry and sad, it will only make them feel disgusted."

"Therefore, positive emotions and negative emotions have to be alternated, making the girls' emotions always curve up and down, trying to stimulate the secretion of dopamine as much as possible."

"In this way, girls will subconsciously think that you gave her this pleasant feeling."

"From there, the girl will be eager to get along with you. Actually, this is the same as smoking, it's essentially an addictive process."

After the weasel heard this, it raised its head and stared at Small Melon for a while. Then, it slowly said," Small Melon, tell me honestly, what is your degree? "

Small Melon replied truthfully, "I didn't read it after I finished reading it on the first day."

The weasel let out a long sigh. "If I had known earlier, I would have finished my primary school."

"Ah? Brother Huang, you didn't even finish elementary school?"

Little Melon said in surprise.

The weasel nodded and sighed, "It's also my fault for being too conceited. At that time, I felt that the knowledge in primary school textbooks was too shallow. It was completely unable to satisfy my strong desire for knowledge, so in the end, I chose..."

"Brother Huang!"

Small Melon hurriedly interrupted, "I still have to explain something to you. It's fine if you tell me these things, but in the future, don't tell Guan Shufen that posturing is risky, and it's easy to overturn a car."

After a long while, the weasel directly "confined" Small Melon in his villa. Eating and drinking together was almost the same as sleeping together.

Little Melon had never thought that one day, he would become a master "professor."

The weasel had never expected that one day, he would become a "student" who worked so hard that he was almost crazy.1

Back when he was studying, if he had a tenth of his current thoughts, he would at least be a top student in an undergraduate school.

The weasel's talent was not that great. Fortunately, diligence could make up for his incompetence.

Another ten days passed, and Little Melon became more and more relaxed. Because the weasel relied on his hard work, he was able to hold his own most of the time.

During this period of time, every conversation and WeChat Moments had been carefully arranged.

It had created a mature, steady, and professional quality man for Shangguan Shufen.

Moreover, she increasingly discovered that this man had slowly left her control. There were a few times when she had a sudden impulse and tactfully expressed that she wanted to change to a pink Apple 13.

If it were in the past, the weasel would definitely send a package over without saying a word.

However, these few times, no matter how Shangguan Shufen hinted, the weasel would not take it.

Sometimes, when the two of them were chatting passionately, the weasel would suddenly disappear. It would have to disappear or simply reappear the next day.

It never explained why it disappeared. Even if Shangguan Shufen had clearly expressed her anger, the weasel would always be carefree and perfunctory.

Shangguan Shufen unknowingly fell deeper and deeper into this inescapable net that was meticulously created by the Love Saint, Little Melon.

There were even several times when she had tactfully hinted to the weasel to confess to her.

But every time, the weasel seemed to be unable to understand the meaning in her words. No matter how she hinted, the weasel would always be vague and ambiguous.

Previously, Shangguan Shufen's attitude towards the weasel had always been that she was not proactive, did not reject, and was not responsible.

But now, the roles of the two slowly began to change. It was more like the weasel was not rejecting her, not taking the initiative. As for being responsible, that could not be considered to be in this realm for the time being.

"Guigu, if this continues, it will not be a problem. Should we start the horn of charge?"

Although the weasel appeared very calm on the screen, in fact, he himself was also in a state of chaos every day.

After a long time, he finally could not hold on any longer.

"Oh? Then tell me, how do you plan on charging?"

Little Melon was wearing a silk bathrobe and was lying on the luxurious sofa that the weasel had spent a lot of money to buy. He was shaking a single bottle of expensive red wine that cost hundreds of thousands.

The coffee table was filled with good cigarettes, good wine, lobsters, abalones and expensive imported fruits.

These few days, Little Melon could be considered to be at the peak of his life. His former big brother had now become his student.

Everyday, he was served with delicious food and drinks. In just a dozen or so days, the little sweet potato's skin became much fairer and fairer, and it directly became a big circle fat.

"Directly confess to her and take her down in one fell swoop. Furthermore, I feel that I have at least 80% confidence in confessing to her now!"

The weasel was full of confidence.

During this period of time, his relationship with Shangguan Shufen had become warmer and warmer. They had already reached the level of intimacy and were only lacking this layer of window paper. The weasel really wanted to break through this final barrier.

"There's no hurry. Although the duck has already been put into the pot, before it's swallowed, it will still fly away. The closer it is to victory, the easier it will be for it to capsize."

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