C546 A Big Shot Has Come
A man has a low requirement for his wife, that is, he can have a 'wife's discipline' at home. He could have a wife kneeling at the head of the bed (cabinet), but in front of outsiders, his wife had to show respect to him. This kind of vanity that cared about face. All men had it. The logic was very simple: if a man was found out that he could not raise his head at home, he would not be able to raise his head. Outside, there is only the right to be a slave. Men often frowned and had headaches when dealing with women with lion roars, but for the sake of face. After getting rid of the awkwardness, the man would say, "Good men don't fight with women. Men don't lower themselves to women's level. " Men often lose things, but for the sake of face, Instead, he would say, "It doesn't matter. Old ones don't go to new ones, but new ones don't come."
There was no lack of timid and timid men among the men, but these timid and timid men were different when they were in love. For the sake of face, they would sacrifice their lives. No wonder people often said, "Men are the bravest when they are in love." There was no lack of stingy men among men. However, when these stingy men were shopping, they would appear "generous" for face. They rarely haggled, and they didn't care even if they spent money for nothing. No wonder people often said, "Men are the most generous when shopping." Men love their face, and they have to act very relaxed when they are tired. When they're weak, they have to act strong. When they can't even protect themselves, they have to act as if they can protect others. They have to act useful when they're helpless. Men loved their face. They didn't dare be overjoyed when they succeeded. When they failed, they did not dare to sigh. When they were sad, they did not dare to cry. When they're at a loss, they don't dare to ask for help...
Therefore, as a woman, you must take this into consideration, when you consider a man's face, you must not say sympathy, but consideration. A man not only cared about his own face, but also his family's face. The society had its own power, so naturally, it also cared about a man's face.
"Dress it, I've already bought it." Qin Feng stuffed the receipt into Lin Xuemei's hands. "Put this away. If there is anything inappropriate, you can come and find her."
"Why are you..." Lin Xuemei looked at the waiter behind her. "This is too expensive."
"As long as you like it." Qin Feng whispered into Lin Xuemei's ear. "As long as you like it, I can buy you anything that is more expensive."
Although Qin Feng's words were coaxing, Lin Xuemei was still a little drunk because these words were too lethal to women.
With boundless happiness, Lin Xuemei took Qin Feng's arm. But very quickly, she let go. Because of her concern, there was nothing she could do. After all, she was a public figure!
The meeting at night was arranged in a quiet farm courtyard. Right now, the bosses did not like Zhang Yang, especially in this kind of bar. The more secretive the place was, the better it was.
Wine was a good wine, and the dishes were planted by the boss in his own acre of land. It was also in line with the current boss's taste of green and pollution-free food.
"Everything is on the right track, isn't it?" Xiao Yuanshan tried his best to put down his pride in such a private occasion. However, the aura of a superior person was still unconsciously released. There was nothing he could do about it. People who had been in high positions for a long time were like this. Even if they wanted to hide it, they could not hide it.
"Thank you for your concern, Mr. Xiao. Everything is fine. We are just waiting for spring to build the road." Qin Feng respectfully poured wine for Xiao Yuanshan.
"Yes, I have been keeping track of you. Your plan for next year will be in your hands, and you will be taking care of the situation in Lanshan County as well." Xiao Yuanshan knew what Qin Feng meant. He also knew why Qin Feng had come to find him. In any case, this kind of thing was a favor to him. It would be a waste not to send him away. Furthermore, this was something that Lin Wanjiang had told him to do. It was impossible for him not to do it, but... Xiao Yuanshan also needed an attitude. He was the boss, after all. They all wanted to be worshipped by the people below, and they all wanted to be pursued by the people below. This was something that the superior boss had instructed them to do. They will definitely do it for you, but... The boss will decide when to do it. I will do it for you for three days and five days, and he will do it for you. He will do it for a year and a half. You can't go to the boss who is even better than him for this time, can you?
It was also because of this that Qin Feng asked Lin Xuemei to bring him to find Xiao Yuanshan alone. It was so that he could make the other party think of his own matters. It was so that she could transfer her money to Xiao Yuanshan as soon as possible.
"You haven't done what I told you last time, have you?" With Lin Xuemei around, Xiao Yuanshan naturally wanted to do a big favor.
"En, that I... I have let you down." Qin Feng lowered his head in shame. That time, Xiao Yuanshan gave him an excellent idea but he did not manage to grasp it properly. This was a bit of a pity.
"The past is the past. The spring of next year is fine too. But the effect may not be so obvious. When the time comes, I will arrange for Deputy Director to go with you. " This time, Xiao Yuanshan was a man of his own. He told Qin Feng a lot of details. He had worked in the national ministry, so he was very clear about the details. However, Xiao Yuanshan would never tell anyone everything. After all, he had to leave some backup plans for himself. If his subordinates were able to handle everything smoothly, Then why did he still need to be a big boss? Wouldn't that make him a superfluous person? That was why the bosses usually liked to leave behind a backup plan when dealing with matters. They would usually make their subordinates think of him when they felt that they couldn't do it.
Xiao Yuanshan was also like this at the moment. Although he had told Qin Feng all the steps and things to take note of, he had also told Qin Feng everything. But he still retained something that only he could do.
During the meal, Xiao Yuanshan tried his best to communicate with Lin Xuemei. However, Lin Xuemei had a simple response from the beginning until the end. She did not speak too deeply about everything. She would always bring the topic back to Qin Feng. This made Xiao Yuanshan feel depressed but at the same time, he could not do anything about it. He had no choice but to satisfy Qin Feng's request as much as possible. In the end, seeing that there was no hope to solve his own problem, Xiao Yuanshan made his phone ring. After receiving the call, Xiao Yuanshan stood up and left.
"Hurry up and eat something. You were so focused on drinking just now." After Xiao Yuanshan left, Lin Xuemei said to Qin Feng lovingly.
"It can't be helped. This is what happens at the table. The boss eats and the subordinates drink." Qin Feng took a bite and put it into his mouth. He said self-deprecatingly, "That's good. You can drink half a kilogram. This kind of Staff Member needs to be cultivated. You can drink half a catty. You must be careful with this kind of Staff Member. You can drink white wine and beer. This Staff Member had to be mixed away, it could drink beer and drink beverages. This Staff Member leaned to the side.
If he didn't know how to drink, he wouldn't have a bright future. One drink nine taels, focus on cultivation. Only drink beverages. The boss doesn't want it. If he can drink it, he can drink it. If he can drink it, he can drink it. If he drinks it, he can drink it. If he drinks it, he can drink it. If he drinks it, he can drink it. If he drinks it, he can drink it. If he drinks it, he can drink it.
"Don't listen to that. It was all fabricated by others. However, he couldn't underestimate the fact that he ate with the boss. " A social dinner isn't just a meal. What should we say? There was a lot of knowledge in it. That's right, that's right. On the other hand, you could have fallen into a trap. You will not be able to turn around. Dinner has been a social way since ancient times. Eating and chatting with others. It was a form of communication to the other party. Let's not talk about what we have to do first. Eating is the first thing to do. This way, we won't have any snobbish feelings, and we can't just drink first. It won't hurt our face. However, when faced with different groups of people, there was a need to be particular about what to say and what to do at dinner. Especially when there was a boss participating in a meal. The boss should be especially energized. After all, the boss was the one who had the right to decide your future and fate.
Sometimes, the dinner was an important occasion for the boss to inspect the loyalty of his subordinates and their ability to conduct themselves. At the table, the normal staff must be careful when talking. Be careful not to bump into a minefield. Otherwise, it is very likely that the boss will have a bad opinion of you and might even bring trouble to his future work and development.
It was said that the previous boss of the Supervision Department had been very mysterious when he spoke at a dinner party. He often had a hidden meaning in his words. In the office below, there was a young man who did not have any ulterior motives. Usually, he was very straightforward when he spoke. At a New Year party, the boss treated them to a meal. During the dinner, after the boss finished his wine, He said very "sincerely" that he could tell him anything he wanted, but he didn't expect that... Before anyone else could say anything, this young man had already started to pour out bitter water. What did he say about this and that? At that time, the boss didn't say anything. And he had been listening with a smile all along. He was the vice president of the office, but he didn't mention it when the boss was around. A while ago, I just solved this matter. At that time, when I saw that person kneel down for me, I even had the heart to do so. This is a meal with the boss. First of all, you have to have a good mouth. If you don't want to say something, you have to keep it in your stomach. Otherwise, misfortune will come out of your mouth. "It's better to do this just now." Lin Xuemei played with the cup in her hand and started to instill the rules of the circle into Qin Feng again.
"I know." Qin Feng stuffed a prawn into his mouth. During dinner, he had to learn to observe and act according to the situation. " One sentence is worth ten thousand words. If something happens, you will be put in an important position by the boss in the future. I heard from my uncle that Vice President Shen Jian was like this at that time. Although he didn't have any special background, he was very appreciated by the boss. When everyone was having dinner with the boss, While others were busy drinking and eating, his eyes were always on the boss's every move. The boss lit a cigarette. He would quickly hand over the ashtray. The boss wanted to toast. He would quickly go over and refill his drink. In addition, he would listen attentively when the boss made an "important speech. From time to time, he would smile and say a few words of thanks when the time was right. It was precisely because of this that... Otherwise, "That is why he was able to move from being a grassroots to being a department head."
"Sigh, this is the specialty of our country." Lin Xuemei looked at the watch on her wrist inadvertently. Qin Feng saw this action and immediately sped up the pace of eating. Immediately, she randomly ate a few mouthfuls of rice and then put down the chopsticks.
"Sister Lin, let's go!" As she spoke, Qin Feng's hand unconsciously...
"Be careful! What kind of occasion is this?" Lin Xuemei hit Qin Feng.
"Hehe, who would pay attention to this?"
"Lie down." Lin Xuemei pressed Qin Feng to the bed and laid him flat. She said gently, "Relax and close your eyes."0
"Did you learn how to massage from somewhere?" Qin Feng asked with a smile.
"Close your eyes." Lin Xuemei reached out and closed Qin Feng's eyes.
As instructed, close your eyes. Qin Feng enjoyed this wonderful moment.
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