C563 There's No Good Solution
The boss's secretary must have the overall, strategic way of thinking and the ability to think. Think of what the boss thinks, think of what the boss is planning, Self-awareness and initiative resonate with the boss's thoughts and connect with each other. The boss was not a saint. It was impossible for him to listen to opinions at any time. He had to be a good advisor. He must have a "tacit understanding" with the boss. When giving advice to the boss, On one hand, one must respect the boss's thoughts. He had to understand the boss's decision-making deeply and grasp the boss's intentions. After careful consideration, he could ask for advice. He needed to provide inspiration to the boss, not compete with the boss in some way. On the other hand, he had to take care of the boss's mood. To talk to people, A cultured person would always take care of others' feelings and wishes, and spoke with propriety. In order to gain the trust of others, as a well-trained secretary, For a superior boss, this was even more so. He had to think twice before doing anything, and at the same time, he had to be quick-witted. He had to be organized and clear. He had to pay attention to the situation and grasp the time. He observed his facial expression and expressed his opinion in a euphemistic manner.0
Secondly, the nature of the boss's secretary is to serve the boss. An excellent secretary sorted out all kinds of trifles by helping the boss handle the trivial matters properly. Let the boss get out of it and concentrate on the big things. In this way, he could improve his work efficiency and save time. And for the secretary, This job was not easy. It required the secretary to develop a good habit during work. Secretarial work was no small matter. A single mistake could lead to irreparable losses. A single mistake could cause trouble for the boss's work. It would affect the overall situation of the work and greatly reduce his impression of the boss. This required the secretary to organize the documents, organize meetings, and carry out tasks. Strive for high standards, strict requirements, and perfection. Carefully and meticulously, she worked hard to achieve "zero mistakes. Zero mistakes, zero flaws. As a secretary, To be honest, to be honest, to be honest with others, to be honest with others, to be honest with others, to be honest with others, to be honest with others, to be honest with others. You must be loyal to your career. To be honest, to be honest, to be honest, to be honest with others, to be honest with others, to be loyal to your career, to be quiet and distant. Not to be sad, to be a human being, to be the first. One is willing to be poor, willing to contribute, and does not seek to be respected by the feudal lords. All he wanted was to benefit the masses and not show himself in front of the stage. He was willing to be a leaf or a blade of grass behind the stage. They would do their best to serve the masses with all their heart.
It couldn't be helped, because you are the boss's accessory. To put it bluntly, you are like a shadow beside the boss. Many times, you need to be an unknown person by the boss's side. You can't be proud and complacent. You can't be arrogant and despotic, especially when it comes to the boss's family or friends. You have to act like a slave, just like Lin Wanjiang's secretary. Although he was not inferior to Lin Xuemei in terms of rank, he was even higher than Lin Xuemei to a certain extent. In front of some bosses, department bosses, and even the deputy governor, he had absolute respect. But in front of Lin Xuemei, he was absolutely respectful. It couldn't be helped because Lin Xuemei was Lin Wanjiang's daughter. She was Lin Wanjiang's closest kin. Lin Wanjiang was a big boss. The premise was that he was a man with seven emotions and six desires. He was a father, a father. That was to love his own child. If you make his daughter uncomfortable, It's like making him uncomfortable. You're making the boss uncomfortable. This is a very simple logic, so... However, all those people who served the boss treated his family as if they were his ancestors. They were absolutely devoted to the boss because they were afraid that the boss would be here.
It would be fine if you had extraordinary abilities. If you don't have any extraordinary abilities, you can only rely on your boss. Then I advise you to be honest, because the boss is not a saint. He will not be able to completely separate his feelings from his work, as long as he has a little bit of personal feelings in his work. The shoes that belong to you will come at you from all directions. Don't think it's an exaggeration. In real life, that is absolutely true.
In a certain family, the two brothers are driving the car for the boss. The boss is doing very well. On the other hand, the second brother was frowning all day long. One day, The boss's boss came to pick him up, and Lao'er happened to see it. Immediately, he pulled his brother to the side. "Brother, I didn't see wrongly, right? Is this true? Your boss came to pick you up by car. Our boss has never been able to pick you up, even if the car is in his garage. It's always me running to their house and getting the car out before waiting for the boss. Bro, teach me. How did you do it?
At this time, Lao'er was physically and mentally exhausted. He was even facing the consequences of being opened by the boss.
"I want to learn!" The boss patted his brother's shoulder with a smile. "Then you should buy a toy gun for your boss's grandson and let the little guy have some fun."
"What? Buy a toy gun for his grandson? On what basis?" Lao'er was confused. He did not understand what this had to do with the boss getting along well with buying a toy gun for his grandson.
"I heard you have the best driving skills in your unit?" The boss patted Lao'er on the shoulder.
"Yes," Lao'er said. Otherwise, why would the boss choose me to drive for him?" Lao'er was very confident about this. He was a soldier. He was very straightforward, but his driving skills were quite lacking. Whether it was the prairie or the Gobi Desert, it didn't matter. There was no road that he had never run before, and it was precisely because of this that... Because the boss's life was precious. As a boss, he was afraid of death, so he naturally found a driver who was quite skilled in driving. However, it was also because of his honesty. As a result, the boss and the driver, who were clearly very special characters, were now somewhat inharmonious.
"Right now, you only have this kind of capital, so it should be said that... Hurry up and do as I say. Remember. You must buy good stuff from the boss's house. Everything is good. Don't buy a toy for three or five dollars like you bought for your son. At least three or five hundred dollars. " The older brother patted his younger brother's shoulder meaningfully. "Let's finish this first. I'll tell you what to do next."
As he spoke, the older brother gave him a meaningful smile. Then, he got into the driver's seat that the boss had just vacated and drove away.
Looking at the smoke coming out of the car silencer, Lao'er fell into deep thought. It seemed that he somewhat understood what his brother meant. However, he still didn't turn the corner. He always felt that as a driver, What he needed was good driving skills and good thinking. As long as he was able to do all this well, But right now... His brother's teachings seemed to subvert his previous viewpoint, according to his brother. As a driver, he seemed to have to build a good relationship with his boss's family first.
Although he still couldn't turn the situation around, he still followed his brother's instructions and went to a larger mall nearby to buy a hot child's favorite robbery. Seeing the few hundred yuan disappear into his pay card, Lao'er's heart ached. One should know that his son had been born until he was three years old. He had never bought him a toy worth more than a hundred dollars. I'll give you five or six hundred dollars for a month's worth of food. How could he not feel heartache? However, even though he felt heartache, he still felt heartache. If he could really build a good relationship with the boss like his brother did, it would be fine too.
You have to know, The boss is still young, and he still has a few years of good time. In the remaining years, if I can really live like my brother, Think of my brother, the driver of the same boss, What kind of treatment did he receive? He had to eat and drink at home. He almost could not spend his own money. Perhaps this was not a normal phenomenon. However, this was an unspoken rule that everyone was familiar with. Follow the boss. As long as you settle your relationship with the boss, the boss can squeeze some food out of his teeth. For example, traveling with the boss. The boss can't possibly buy a serving when he's shopping, right? Of course. There are also real bosses who buy one, but that can't be blamed on the boss. It can only be said that you don't have a good relationship with the boss. Most of the time, Most of the time, the boss will take at least two, and the driver will follow behind and pay by credit. When he comes back, he will receive the same treatment as the boss. Plus, the boss is very good at dealing with things. During the holidays, the boss would give him a few VIP cards to solve some practical problems for him, and at the same time, he would give him a few VIP cards. In other words, he was sure that he had been working hard for the past year. The treatment at home was also different!
Looking at Lao'er again, although he could get some benefits on a daily basis, But it's nothing more than bringing back a little bit of wine from a meal with the boss, and the point is, What was the use of alcohol when you lived at home? You could really make boxes of wine at home. To put it bluntly, you can take it out to exchange for some money. The point is, you only take one or two bottles. This is not enough to show respect to the elders of both parties. How can you take it out to exchange for money? Compared to the boss, Lao'er's days were pretty tight. Basically, he lived on his salary, so... When he took out these few hundred yuan, Lao'er felt like he was cutting off the flesh in his heart. How could it not hurt to cut off the flesh in his heart? However, when he thought of the possibility of improving his relationship with the boss, Lao'er forced himself to focus.
He pressed the doorbell, and the person who opened the door happened to be the boss. When he saw Lao'er, the boss did not have much of a smile on his face. It was just a simple sentence, and then he turned around. At this moment, the boss's three-year-old grandson ran over. Lao'er quickly handed over the toy gun in his hand. He was very naive. Whoever gave him something good would feel good. Immediately, he called out to his uncle sweetly, "Ah! Ah! Ah!" while holding the newly bought gun, he shuttled back and forth between the rooms. His grandson was happy, and the boss also revealed a rare smile on his face. Immediately, he asked Lao'er to sit down, so that the boss could sit down. Lao'er was overwhelmed by the unexpected favor. This was the first day of the Lunar New Year!
The boss talked to Lao'er in the car. The first time, the boss said something meaningful when he got out of the car. When the boss closed the door, Lao'er quickly called the boss, "Brother, it worked.
"It worked, didn't it? Then hurry up and go to the market and buy some fresh vegetables, meat, and eggs to send back to the boss's house. Remember, it must be fresh vegetables. There is not much of each type, but you must have a complete variety. In short, everything is used well. Don't be afraid of spending money, "the boss said seriously.
"Brother, then wouldn't I become a partner?" Lao'er said reluctantly. This thing was no different from a housewife or a housewife.
"Brother, it would be great if you could really be the boss's housewife," the boss said meaningfully. "You used to be in the army. " You know that in the army, the head of the cookhouse is usually the head of the cookhouse. It's easy for the head of the cookhouse to be advanced, right? Even the head of the combat class, soldiers, and so on might not be as popular as the head of the cookhouse. Why? It's because the head of the cookhouse has the right to come and do something. Think about it, you guys eat and drink normally. As long as you squeeze out a little bit, it will be enough to send it to the commander counselor's house. In peaceful times, the boss doesn't measure whether a person can do it or not, it's not whether you can fight or not, it's just to see if you'll get into trouble. This is the same in society, everyone works. It's all about work, and you know what it's like to work in a public house. How can you stand out? That's to find a way to get close to the boss. As long as you get close to the boss, as long as the boss has an impression of you, It's hard for you not to be rich, so... Now that you have the opportunity to get close to the boss, you must seize it well and never lose it. What's wrong with asking you to buy some food for the boss's house? To put it bluntly, you have to go to the toilet for their house. "
"Brother, I can't make it!" Lao'er was a little embarrassed. It was acceptable to buy a toy for the boss's grandson in the morning. Now, he was buying food and drinks for the boss's house. A person with his personality really couldn't do it well.
"If you can't do it, if you can't do it, just wait and move your position!" With a clank, Boss hung up the phone.
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