C585 I Have a Plan
If you have a good personal relationship with the boss... Don't easily reveal it, be it in public or in private. Even when you are alone with the boss, if the boss doesn't take the initiative to act like an old friend, Then don't try to show off your relationship with the boss. It can only arouse the boss's dislike. It might even destroy the good relationship that was established in the past. Because the boss's mind is very strange, you will never think of what he is thinking. If you use your relationship with the boss to show off in front of people, the boss will think that you are using your power as a dog. You will have ideas about you. Then you are finished, so... Even if you have some kind of relationship with the boss, some kind of relationship with the boss, some kind of relationship with the boss, some kind of relationship with the boss, some kind of relationship with the boss, some kind of relationship with the boss, some kind of relationship with the boss, some kind of relationship with the boss. If it weren't for the fact that you don't want to bring out these so-called 'personal relationships' at a very special time, Otherwise, in the boss's opinion, you're just using two people's personal relationships to gain benefits, and the boss doesn't like this kind of people the most. Even if you have a personal relationship with me, I can definitely take care of you. But you absolutely can't bring it up first. Even if you do, I will have to find a suitable reason to tell everyone. Then I'll let everyone remember this relationship.2
Xie Qiang had experienced it personally. He had encountered such a thing when he had just started work. The day after he transferred a leader over, One of the lesbians in the unit began to grow wings and spread the word that she was related to the leader. In fact, she was just a distant relative, like this kind of distant relative. If there were no special circumstances, they probably wouldn't be in contact with each other. But everyone in the circle knew, even if it was a distant relative. Sometimes they could become close relatives, didn't they say? Being poor in the city, no one asked, and being rich had distant relatives in the mountains. In the circle, as long as there was a bit of kinship, No matter what, they will find a way to get close to it, so... Everyone had a different opinion of this woman, especially when she mentioned the Section Chief in her heart. Everyone felt that she was already the person in charge of that department, but who knew? From the moment this woman revealed the truth to her arrogance and then to her dejection, they had never seen the boss take special care of her. She was still an ordinary employee. She did not go to a certain department to be a Section Chief as she had said. A male employee who was usually unknown suddenly jumped from an ordinary employee to an empty Section Chief position. And that position was the position that the woman had been talking about. Everyone was puzzled. They went around to find out what method this man had used, but... In the end, they didn't find any useful clues. It was the same hand that had unraveled the secret on its own.
The First Hand's grandmother was the male employee's grandmother's sister. This was the relationship between the two of them. This seemingly distant relationship played a role at such a specific moment. This male employee was also very fortunate to be able to coincide with his grandmother's birthday. As a sister, she was already so old. Naturally, she wanted to go over and take a look, so this male employee 'bumped into' this person. Even so, this male employee still respectfully greeted this person. He did not address the leader as' brother ', even in the future. He never went to look for anything. It was just a chance encounter.
With such a relationship, the leader felt that it would be too bad if he didn't do anything to raise his grandmother. Thus, the self-righteous woman didn't get promoted, and this unknown man was promoted to Section Chief.
Xie Qiang had always remembered that incident in his heart. Hence, even if he later found out Lin Wanjiang's true identity, He had never asked for anything in person. Every time, it was Lin Wanjiang who took care of him at the right time. Especially when Lin Wanjiang had just arrived in Zhongyuan Province, Xie Qiang didn't even get close to him. As Lin Wanjiang, he had always been wandering on the edge of the region. At that time, he didn't get angry because he knew what Xie Qiang was thinking. The reason why Xie Qiang didn't go up was because he was waiting for an opportunity. If Lin Wanjiang couldn't hold on any longer, he would vote again. It turned out that he had done the right thing. It was also because he didn't show off that Lin Wanjiang thought highly of him. Every time he encountered something important, he would let him do it. Xie Qiang knew it as well. It's not just trust, it's an accumulation of capital. As long as he had enough capital, his promotion would naturally be smooth sailing. Most importantly, there is a characteristic in the circle. As long as you have something to do, you can basically get benefits. This rule even appeared on no matter what, which was why everyone was rushing to ask the boss to give them more responsibilities. That's why people keep going to the boss to ask for work, because as long as there's something going on, As long as there was something going on, there would be contact. There would be contact. They would have to coordinate and deal with all kinds of relationships. How would they deal with relationships?
The way to deal with relationships in the Heavenly Dynasty was almost the same. It was nothing more than drinking and eating. If they added more weight, they would be honest with each other after drinking and take a bath. The mulberry took it, and all of this... And all of this can't be left without the word 'money', as long as you can pass the money from your own hands. It's like a classic dialogue between a bank president and his son. The son of a certain bank's president asked the president, "Dad, look, the money in your bank belongs to those customers and depositors. Then how did you earn a house, a Mercedes-Benz car, and a yacht? " Dad said, "Son. There's a piece of fat in the fridge. Son brought it over.
Put it back. " His son sent it back. When he came back, his son asked, "What do you mean?" His father replied, "Do you have oil on your hands?"
If the money could not keep anything, it could only be said that this person was too stupid.
This was also the real reason why some people wanted to do things so much.
Of course, people at Xie Qiang's level would not do it for such a small profit. He wanted to accumulate capital. As long as the capital accumulated to a certain degree, it would be difficult not to get promoted. What he wanted was that level, not some imaginary thing.
If the boss wanted to get promoted, he had to be open-minded. And he had to endure it. It was like the story of an ancient food carrier. Once, a grain boss. Due to the sinking of the ship, he was punished. During the exam, a superior boss judged the boss to be below average. After the boss learned about it, He neither voiced his opinion nor showed any signs of fear. The boss then thought, The sinking of the ship is not his personal responsibility. It's not something he can save with his own strength." Therefore, he decided to change it to "middle" level. The boss still did not express his opinion. He did not say a fake word of thanks, nor did he look touched. When the boss saw him like this, he was very impressed. "Good. Don't be surprised by your favor and humiliation. It's hard to come by! It's hard to come by!" He immediately changed his achievements to "above average" level.
It was clear that he wanted to maintain a calm heart. Flipping open the history book, We will see that some people hide their gains and losses deep within their hearts. Some people get carried away because they are favoured and frown because they are humiliated. We can only maintain a calm heart. Only then would they be able to remain calm and indifferent. Being calm and composed was a high level of being able to see through it. It was not a passive evasion, nor was it a way to see through the world of mortals. It was a kind of calmness, a kind of calmness, a kind of calmness, far from fame and fortune, far from the clamor.
If one could endure it, then one must endure poverty. If he could endure loneliness. "Name" and "Benefit 'had great temptation, and fame and fortune often made people lose their minds. Their souls were captivated, and thus, their souls were captivated. Take hold of yourself at any time, under any circumstances. If the owner's mind was full of fame and status, he would be blinded by greed. If he was greedy for money, he would let go of the changes in his worldview. Thought and morality will slide, life and values will change. He would disregard the Party rules and laws, and he would do whatever he could to pursue fame and wealth. In the end, they would be corrupted by power, money, beauty, and other temptations. Their morals would deteriorate, their actions would go against the law, and their futures would be destroyed. They would be spurned by the Party and the people.
If the boss wanted to be open-minded, the first problem he had to solve was to treat himself properly. When looking at things that seemed very unreasonable, he had to treat them as reasonable. Especially Xie Qiang's current situation, even though he was such a big boss. He had to act like a grandson. Many people found this unbelievable. They couldn't understand this kind of behavior. However, as a true beneficiary, You have to endure it, you have to endure this' humiliation under the surface '. He had to live in the boss's weather watch, he had to do everything with the boss at the center. He had to take the boss as a precondition, and he knew how to advance and retreat at the right time. He knew when he could call the boss brother and when he should treat the boss like his ancestors. Only when you can endure the humiliation from your crotch can you become a general. So, the two of them have worked together for so many years. This was the first time Xie Qiang had revealed his identity as an old friend. Because he knew that this was the right time to do this. Because Lin Wanjiang revealed his personal feelings, under such circumstances, If you still don't know how to treat your boss with the attitude of work, you won't give the boss any face. The fact that the boss was able to show his feelings in front of you was a kind of trust that the boss had for you. If you don't take the boss's trust seriously, then the boss won't take you seriously. The boss doesn't take you seriously anymore. What kind of future do you think you have? Perhaps you still have a chance after the boss leaves this place. But you have to know, a chance. If you can't grasp this opportunity, Then you're a step slower than others, because there's still an age limit if you want to get in the circle. It's like being exposed on the Internet, saying that the age limit is 35. Deputy Chief is 39 years old, Department level 44 years old. The department head is 49, the department head is 59, the department head is 59, If you haven't reached the required level at the appropriate age, you'd better find another student. Therefore, Age is a very important part for those who want to ascend. The boss's term of office is usually three to five years, during the three to five years of the boss's term of office. If you couldn't get promoted successfully, it would be equivalent to growing three to five years out of thin air. I believe everyone in the circle knows the consequences. Therefore, Xie Qiang didn't dare to play games. He was about to reach the so-called bottleneck. If he couldn't smoothly step into the ranks of the official bosses during Lin Wanjiang's term of office, It's possible to lose this opportunity forever.
When the boss reached the deputy boss level, if he still couldn't grasp the opportunity firmly, it could only be said that the rice and white flour from the past were all for free. As for Xie Qiang, of course, he didn't want to be a rice bucket. That was why he would use his old friend identity to comfort Lin Wanjiang at such a critical moment.
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